Advise yourself is the way to become mature

Advising others, talking to yourself, and say ... oh yes!! turned out to rich and poor alike, a lot of money or do not have the same, or suffer the same happy. everything is true according to the saying of the wise.

      Maybe now we can say, at the time we really feel is above, feel free to say, has had a lot of material sufficiency of money, or try to be wise because we are old enough and have been through many difficult things that happened to life, and without conscious meet with people who are similar to the passionate desire to try to advise him. and of course hope that people understand and quite comprehend his words. and assume that we ourselves are wise enough to understand many things, and hope all the problem is solved. then the question is what we are wise enough to yourself???

     The answer may sound quite complicated, if we may be wise to something outside of ourselves, but not to us, because of all that experience, advise yourself as advising others while we grieve, deprivation, or a state pretty ironic example. it is quite difficult. not quite difficult to prove but we are dealing with beings that have free will and conscience.

      By analogy might be like a doctor who has cancer, but does not eliminate the real meaning that he is a healer. cancer may be likened to a disease is an analogy, but actually more to heart disease. and deep-rooted that, of course, the main enemy of happiness.

      Imagine a condition when assessed from the perspective of both, which is certainly someone outside of ourselves, when we try to give an epiphany. The person experiencing an unstable mental condition, hypersensitivity, all the things that others do to him all wrong, even an action or words that contain a positive meaning. He argues that in fact he was the true and right to blame everything on what happened to her at this time. was reluctant even while crying himself, oh I do not need your advice this time, all I need now is a solution to get out of this situation, I feel uncomfortable, or something that can change all the things that happened to me today in the blink of an eye, so I can feel happy again. all my problems go away, and all things return to normal as usual.

      I again said ohhh ... dear calm down for a moment , this world in which we live and the life , this is what you must realize that this is life . not just simply feed ourselves and our dreams , so please once again understand and think about that stuff . quite frankly a lot of people out there who are involved various problems , both of which he or she intentionally bring himself and pull himself into her life -and accidentally came upon him . This may sound like a tumor in the brain , but the adults should be we take that it is the ladder of life and the real part of who we are , but that's life we can not deny , but enough for us to understand , so if it were not so mean not life . but it is not always like that , and we should be pretty sure that there is no problem that had no solution . we believe it's been ages ago since the birth of the first human in this world in pairs . yes we can equate it with the law in pairs . so now the problem is where the pieces of the solution , maybe he slipped behind the narrow sidelines our brain . we have to look for it but not to avoid it .

      Problems can be interpreted something considered that in a real awareness that what we believe is not really in line with expectations. "Life is actually not difficult, simply by breathing we've lived, but life is difficult, then every life there is a science that can explain".

       Living in the real sense as we feel right now, full definition is not far away as described in our biology teacher lessons about ecology and ecosystem diversity of living organisms, including the one that we are mammals. qualified enough to sustain life with eating characteristic, move, breathe, breed, but the real creatures that we are super VIP who has free will and conscience. Will we ever be grateful for this one??

       But from everything that's happened we interact with each other, in other words, as a social creature. each have a principle, supposition, ways, and different backgrounds. that there will be conflict and that's when problems may arise. what underlies our feelings are not in line with the logic. there may be times when we find a dead end, frustration, and depression that surrounds the heart, and it's hard to control myself.

       then may we ask , what can we do in that moment . if there's nothing that can be done at that time , you should not say anything , and stop complaining about problems start to build step . it sounds easy right . but obviously only one step to complete , our job is to convince yourself this to heart and keep stepping . but do not take foolish.

     most of us may be too frantic and afraid to start a step , but it is clear that it takes a strong conviction . strong conviction must be based on a sincere and good intentions . without any good intentions and where objective measures could be wrong . taste that the solution is always close to the problem . may experience our lives can prove and explain .

      Whatever it is , wherever we are , we have to remain confident , and admonish ourselves , if it has strayed far from the rails of life or our true purpose . nobody really cares about us but ourselves , because the secret abilities and weaknesses we have in ourselves . Our greatest enemy is ourselves. Actually happens is not outside but within us , because beyond just the result but because there certainly are on the inside. begin to mature .